I am just a straight up asshole. I’ve become my father in my old age and I hate it. I don’t know what to do because I recognize the signs and symptoms but I don’t know what to do about it. I hate myself. I absolutely hate myself and I don’t know how I can reasonably expect to be a good therapist if I am effectively a low grade narcissist. I seem to think of myself only and I just don’t know how to be any different.
I thought I was a different person. I thought I was more learned and more aware but I am not. I’m just an autistic fuck up, an angry piece of shit. I ruined my girlfriend’s birthday because I am so damned self-centered but not intentionally so. I should be single. I should just not ruin other people’s lives.
Fuck me! It’s hot and I’m a goddamned loser and nobody should do a thing for me. I just take, take, take and don’t seem to give back. I’ve lived a lie. All I do is hurt and disappoint those that care about me. I sadden them and make nothing of myself. I just want to sit here and cry. I’m no better than any of Denisse’s other boyfriends. The only thing I don’t do is abuse her. I’m still an asshole. I don’t know how to be good at relationships. I am not good at reading emotions or anticipating needs and it’s no excuse. I don’t know how to be better. I don’t understand why I can’t be normal.
I’m just so full of self loathing right now. I’d cry but I’m not even worth the self-pity. I don’t know why I even try.